Why do people give up
Do you give up so easily in life? Do you feel sometimes you want to give up on your life? Do you lack persistence?
We can place people in life in two groups, group that is persistent who keep going after their goals until they achieve them. The second group is people that give up on life too quickly due to one of the many life challenges.
In life, you are going to face challenges and obstacles. One of the major keys to success and achieving your goals is learning how to view obstacles. Instead of viewing them as something negative, start realizing that these challenges are crucial to your success. Therefore, instead of giving up easily and quickly, you have to learn be persistent as I mentioned in my book “the ultimate guide to achieve your goals.”
Why do I give up so easily?
I can hear you wonder why you give up so easily in life. If that is the case, then read on:
1. Lack of desire
Let’s face it; if you lack desire towards your goal, you are likely to give up. When I was in my teens and early 20’s, I wanted to become an actor. Yet, as time went by, my interests in becoming an actor have decreased, so I started making other goals in my life and I gave up on my goal to become an actor.
If you feel like giving up on one area of your life or all your life for that matter, you need to find out what you are passionate. Ask yourself a few questions such as:
- What am I passionate about?
- If I can do anything in life now, what would that be?
- If I had all the money in the world, what will I do?
Once you know what you desire, you can start working towards what you’re passionate about. You also can begin enhancing that desire through creative visualization and meditation and you will not want to give up on life or your goals.
2. Lack of faith
The second cause that makes so many people give up on their life and goals is lack of faith. In other words, they don’t believe they can achieve what they desire in life whether it is a loving relationship that they seek, business adventure, prosperity, or happiness.
You might ask how you develop faith in yourself so you won’t feel like giving up on your life, goals, and dreams. Great question! The first thing you need to increase you faith is to overcome your limiting beliefs. If you believe that you are not capable of living life the way you want to and that you can’t achieve your goals, then you won’t.
Get a piece of paper and start writing down your limiting beliefs that are causing you to feel like giving up on your goals and life. Once you have done the list, go through each limiting belief you wrote.
For example, if one of your limiting beliefs is “I’m not smart” then ask yourself “Why do I feel that way? What do I lack that others have? Brain? Hands? Legs? Once you start going through your limiting beliefs, questioning them, and examining the root cause, you will begin to see that they are false and that there is a lot more to you than that.
Once you start working on finding what you truly desire and what you are passionate about, followed by strong faith, you will begin to become persistent and you would not give up on your life, dreams, or goals.
Do you know that only 3% of the world’s population manage to plan and reach their goals? The main goal for 2achieveyourgoals.com is to help you become from the top 3% of the world’s population who know how to achieve any goal they desire in all areas of life. ”The ultimate guide to achieve your goals” was released to help you achieve everything your heart desires.
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