The magic word that can change your life
Do you know that there is a magic word that can change your life for better? What is this magic word? And how can this magic word help you achieve success?
Yes my friend, there is a word that can turn negative things to good things. This magic word has such power that its use depends on you. It can help you improve your life and achieve everything your heart desire. This magic word can help you turn misery into happiness and failure to success.
The magic word that can change your thoughts and life for better is the word “BUT.” You might wonder how one word that contains three letters can do miracles for you.
Suppose you lost your job. Instead of getting upset and negative about it, you can say something like, “Yes, I lost my job, but I’m going to get a better one.” If you lost some money in the stock market, you can say, “It is true I lost some money, but I’m going to get more than what I lost.” If you are depressed, you can say, “Yes, I’m depressed, but I’m going to get better and become happy.” Do you see where I’m going with this?
This magic word can transform your thoughts and take you from being depressed and helpless to becoming an optimist and happy.
How to use this magic word?
1. Every time something negative or bad happens to you, accept it and start to focus on the solution. You have to know what the negative issue is, so you can change it to something more positive.
2. After you know mentally exactly what you want to change, remind yourself of the word “BUT” so it will take you from the negative situation to the positive.
3. Take action and start taking steps to help get you where you want to be. If you use the magic word “BUT,” without taking action, then you probably won’t get the desired results.
Whenever you encounter a problem in your life, remind yourself of the power that the word “BUT” has and how it can help you change your thoughts, so you can solve your problems and have a better life.
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Absolutely, you have to look for the positives whenever you are faced with negativity.
I agree, Richard. There are so many positives out there.
You just have to take a different view and everything changes for the better, in your mind at least.
We all know what hapens when life gives you lemons…
For sure Linda, once we change our mindset and look for the positive, then we are changing ourselves for the better.
For sure Richard, for every situation, there is something positive.
I agree and truly believe there are no accidents without value. Meaning, even a bad circumstance can lead to something better when we choose to look for the value in it.
Alex
Hi Alex,
For sure, every negative circumstance can lead to something better if we decide to look for the positive.
I can’t agree more. It is too easy to let ourselves become bogged down by our adversities, BUT we have to move from the darkness into the light. We have to be stronger than our problems. Great post!
Hi Dandy,
For sure my friend, we have to be stronger than our problems. If we can’t control our thoughts, then our thoughts will control us and will lead us to a negative place if we don’t choose the positive.
I agree. Everything that we perceive as bad can come with a hidden benefit.
For sure Steven, there is a benefit in everything as we learn and grow from our experiences.
I hadn’t thought before of the power of ‘but’…notwithstanding, what a great point this makes about how to turn everything from bad to good, worse to better, fear to hope.
Hi Marcus,
Exactly, it is a great way to change everything negative to positive.
I’ve recently discovered the draining power of the word “but”. It’s a word almost built for excuses. I’ve been working to replace the word but with more positive words over the last few weeks.
Thanks for Sharing Dia. This was a great one!
Hi JK,
Yea, it depends on how we interpret words. Many people use the word “but” for execuses, but if we really can use it in a more positive way.
Like JK I had associated the word but with negative connatations and excuses – I’d love to BUT, I would go for it BUT……this has given me a great new perspective,thank-you very much!
Hi Kate,
Many people use the word “but” for execuses, but if we change the way we use the word “but” our life will transform for the better.
The word BUT disqualifies a previous statement for sure! We must be careful though that we do not use it in the reverse. This word can disqualify good statements too. I have never really thought of it as a magical word. Thank you for the food for thought, Dia.
Hi Sandra,
Exactly my friend, the word “but” disqualifies the previous statement. We have to use it in the positive sense all the time, otherwise, we would be using in a negative way and that would be harmful for us.
Great post and recommendation Dia. It really is all about focusing on the right things and looking at things from the right perspective. I think your suggestion to use “But” definitely points you in the right direction.
Hi Sibly,
For sure my friend, it is all about focusing on the positive things in every situation. When we focus on the positive, we will get positive results, guaranteed.