It is time to settle down
Are you ready to settle down with your partner? Is settling down with someone you love necessary in life?
When it comes to relationships, settling down means you are ready to commit to one person who you want to share your life with. For most people, settling down is a necessary aspect at one point in life.
For the past 3 weeks, I have been busy taking a very important step in my life which is settling down with the woman I love. Finally, the woman I love and I got engaged and we are ready to share life together.
Before I got to this stage, I had to work on myself internally to be able to attract the woman I dream of. I had to overcome many limiting beliefs I had, had to develop faith, focus on the attributes that I want in a woman, Visualize, and take inspired action among other aspects.
I see many people who settle for a partner less than what they want due to the fact that they fear of not finding the perfect partner. The fact is that the person who has most or all the attributes you like is out there waiting for you, so never settle for less than what you desire.
As I mentioned in my book “How to win your lover’s heart” that you really can have the relationship you desire and the perfect partner you always dreamed of, you just have to do some work like knowing what you want in a partner, overcoming your limiting beliefs that pertain to relationships, visualizing, and focusing on what you do want instead of what you don’t want.
Benefits of settling down
- Companionship- Humans love to be surrounded by others. If you are like most people, the chances are you don’t want to live in a deserted island all by yourself.
- Someone to share your life with
- Having a family that includes children
- Giving and receiving love
When you decide to settle down, be sure you give your partner the followings:
- Give more compassion
- Listen better
- Look for the goodness in your lover’s heart
- Practice to be kind rather than being right
- Show affection
- Forgive
- Become your partner’s best friend
- Communicate better
- Say “I love you” often
Before I end this short post, I will leave you with a picture from my engagement party. 
While there is time for me to implement this.. i thoroughly enjoyed the pic…you both look so good together
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Thanks Jaky for your kind words
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I’m sure that you’ll be very happy together. It’s great to see someone who has put so much conscious effort into attracting their partner. I frequently get people to do the simple exercise of writing down all the qualities that are important to them in a prospective partner. The clearer you are, the easier it is to find them! You can quickly assess people and if they are not a fit, you know it straight away. Spending more energy on people who fit your vision is much better than spreading your energy thin over a whole bunch of people when you have no clear vision.
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Thanks Dan,
Yea for sure, knowing what you want in a partner and writing down all the details is a crucial step. After all, how can you attract someone with all the attributes you want if you don’t know what they are? You have to create peace with the idea… Thanks again Dan
Congratulations Dia!
Best wishes for a wonderful, happy life together.
Alex
Thanks Alex for your kind words my friend
Hi Dia,
Congratulations! Beautiful picture and thank you for sharing it with us. I know that you will have a wonderful life.With these point you can’t miss. * Give more compassion
* Listen better
* Look for the goodness in your lover’s heart
* Practice to be kind rather than being right
* Show affection
* Forgive
* Become your partner’s best friend
* Communicate better
* Say “I love you” often
Every one of them is very important. When it comes to showing affection I would add “Every Day”.
Again, congratulations and keep us posted on the big day.
Blessing to you both,
Debbie
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Thanks Debbie for your wishes, really appreciated
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Congratulations Dia!!! What a wonderful example of someone deliberately creating their reality. Bravo!
Hugs,
Melody
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Thank you Melody and thanks for stopping by my friend
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Hi Dia,
I was wondering why you haven’t posted in a while, glad to hear you were doing something that will provide you long lasting happiness.
Congratulations my friend, your fiance/ future wife is beautiful.
There is nothing in the world that is more personal development oriented than being married. I know.
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Thanks Justin for your kind words. Indeed this is a very important step in life that will help the person in all other domains in life and enhance the individual’s happiness.
I’ m glad you’ve achieved this goal, Dia. Congratulations.
Gip
Thanks Gip, really appreciate it my friend
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Thanks charlotte, appreciate your kind words
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Congratulations Dia!!! I’m so very thrilled for you and your lovely fiance’. I totally agree with Melody, what a wonderful example of someone deliberately creating their reality. You’ve just proven to us all that is really does work.
Here is wishing you both the very best.
Adrienne
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Hi, Dia,
I think settling down with a partner is a mutual feeling that happens without much talk, if both persons in the relationship are serious and feel they are truly ready for such step. I’ve been through a lot with my husband for a short time, and that only made us stronger and without any doubts of living together, sharing the same space and getting married.
P.S. Nice pic, you have a lovely girl!
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Yeah Dia
Congrats on your engagement. I think everything you said about relationships and settling down is right on point. The advice you gave for what you should do when you settle down is so important. Great post and congrats again.
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