I want to change my life
I want to change my life now! How can I change my life? My life is horrible, can you help me?
John has been having a rough time lately since he lost his job. His distress and negative thinking have affected his relationship with his wife and children, so he feels that he is lost and wants to change his life to lead a better and more prosperous life. Sounds familiar?
There are millions of people like John across the globe that feel life is horrible and miserable. They want to lead a better life, but their negative thinking and challenges of life makes it hard for them to do so.
I want to change my life
If you want to learn how to change your life, then follow the below guide:
Give up self pity
I can sit with you and we can cry and moan all we want and say “life is tough, life is unfair, boss is a jerk, my partner doesn’t understand…,” but will that change anything? Nope, it won’t! Complaining and blaming never solve anything. What they do is the contrary; keep you where you are feeling like a victim, so what should you do instead?
- Take responsibility for your thoughts and life
A long time ago, I was one of those people who wanted to change my life, but kept on complaining and blaming circumstances and people for my life. A day came where I said; “enough is enough” I’m going to stop blaming people and circumstances for what happens to me in my life. If I want to make a lasting change, then I have to take responsibility for my thoughts, behaviors, and actions. Only then, positive changes started happening to me.
Know what you want
You can’t change anything about your life unless you know exactly what you want to achieve. Without knowing what you want, you won’t be able to get there, at least not consciously. It is like an airplane that wants to change its direction, but does not know where to go or where to land.
As I said in my book “the ultimate guide to achieve your goals” that having a vision and knowing what you want is necessary if you want to achieve your goals in life.
I know by now you are asking “How do I know what I want out of life? I’m not passionate at anything.” To answer this question, you have to ask yourself some questions, so here is the exact exercise that I did to help me find out what my purpose is and what I want in my life:
Imagine you have everything in life and that supply is unlimited (it is unlimited by the way) and that you have one billion dollar, perfect relationships, your dream business, and excellent health. Now, ask yourself, “If I had all those things, what would I do in my life every day? How would I like my life to be? How would I spend my time? Where would I go? How will I serve others and myself?”
Take a few days to ponder these questions. Asking yourself these questions could be the best thing you do in your life as it might change your life for better for ever. This exercise has helped me find what I’m passionate about and I’m sure it will help you as well.
Now that you have made a decision to change your life for better and you know what you are passionate about, it is time to take your first step. As yourself the following two questions:
What is the first step that I can take right now to change my life?
Do I have all the necessary tools to start?
You don’t have to do all the work in one day or one week, but you need to take daily steps that will help you change your life and accomplish what you want.
If you want to improve your health, start exercising and eat healthier food. If you want to improve your relationship, start nurturing your relationship and start to express your love. If you want to make more money, apply for a new job or start your own business. The key is to take action and do something today, not tomorrow.
Taking responsibility, knowing what you want, and taking action are very necessary steps to take if you are serious about changing your life for better. Don’t wait for tomorrow to start, now is the time.
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