How to get over being dumped
Have you ever been dumped by your girlfriend or boyfriend? Did your self esteem get affected when you were rejected by the opposite sex?
Thousands of people break up with their partner on a daily basis and when that happens, they start feeling sorry for themselves. They begin to take things personally and they begin to lose confidence in themselves.
While it is not easy for most people to get over being dumped quickly, let me tell you it is possible to get over the rejection and hurt you initially experience.
Causes of getting dumped
There are many reasons that could cause you to get rejected:
1. Different criteria
One of the main reasons why you could have been dumped is because you didn’t meet the other person’s criteria. Each one of us has a specific life style and certain things we like about the opposite sex, so if you don’t meet these qualifications, you can easily be rejected.
This however, doesn’t make you unworthy or unlovable. It only means you two are not on the same spiritual level.
2. Not ready for a relationship
Sometimes the individual who rejects you wants to be single and might not be ready for a commitment so he or she might pull out from the relationship.
3. Playing the field
Some folks love to keep playing the field and keep going from one person to another. They are not ready to settle down and be deeply involved in a relationship.
How to get over being dumped
The best solution that will help you overcome feeling sorry for yourself when you get rejected is by understanding that whatever reason you got dumped for has nothing to do with you personally. It only means you are not on the same spiritual level and that there is something better coming your way if you are willing to see the light.
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Hi Dia,
Stuff happens…can be tough at the time however you must move on…surprises can be just around the corner
be good to yourself
David
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Hi Dia,
It’s nice to be here. I’m coming over from Adrienne Smith’s 42 blogs worth mentioning pdf.
I’m so trilled she gave us this information of valuable blogs. She’s great and I visit her blog often. It’s a pleasure reading and commenting on good content. You learn so much and make good friends too.
Being dumped truly stinks. Your self esteem sure does take a beating. It all boils down to knowing yourself.
Knowing who you are will keep you together not only when you get dumped but also anything negative that happens in life. (losing your job)
I’m not trying to make all this sound easy because it is most definitely not.
Having feelings for someone and having them break up with you can really hurt. That’s normal and may even last a while. How you deal with it is key.
Having good friends certainly helps but knowing who you are will enormously help you get through it. Don’t blame or put a “thumb” on your self and you will get through the rain.
Thanks for sharing and letting me comment Dia,
Terry Conti
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Dia: I have been dumped and I still do not know if I am okay. I am single, but not looking. I think part of the reason I was dumped was because my girlfriend usually came second to my passion. I know that no relationship will work that way so I have decided that since this is what I wanted from the beginning, I will put all of my focus and love into turning a dream into reality.
I was wondering how a person knows they are at peace of mind after being dumped? Is there a feeling that I am supposed to feel?
Personally, I do not think I have peace of mind or that I am depressed. I think I am somewhere stuck in between.
You know what they say though, the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else.
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