How to find a fulfilling relationship?
How to find a fulfilling relationship? Is having a healthy relationship something too much to ask for?
Kelly is a single woman who is seeking to find a partner to enjoy life with. She looks at her circle of friends and many tend to have a happy relationship, so she is wondering what it takes for her to find that healthy, happy, and fulfilling relationship she dreams of?
Finding someone to be in a relationship with is not hard, but finding someone that you really love and enjoy life with is where many go wrong. Why is it so many of us want to have happy relationship yet many find it difficult to do so?
Often people when they enter in a relationship, they get in for the wrong reasons. One of the many reasons some want to get in a relationship is for the sake of fulfilling their unmet desires like happiness.
Many folks feel unhappy and hope that someone else will be able to fill the emptiness inside of them, unfortunately, it never works out.
As I mentioned in my book “How to win your lover’s heart” that you can’t have a fulfilling relationship unless you feel happy and satisfied first before you get in the relationship. Being in a fulfilling relationship starts internally. You have to feel fulfilled first before you start enjoying and having a happy relationship. You are responsible for your happiness, not your partner.
When I wanted to attract the woman of my dreams into my life, I started to work on myself internally. This meant that:
1. I had to recognize the reasons why I want to enter in a relationship
2. I had to start taking charge of my happiness and stopped depending on having a partner for my happiness.
3. I started to hold visualization sessions daily to program my subconscious mind with everything I want.
4. I behaved “as if” I already have a fulfilling relationship.
This of course took some constant practice, learning, failing, and correcting my mistakes and beliefs I had programmed in my subconscious mind before I was able to attract the woman of my dreams in my life.
Focusing on yourself is the first step you need to make. Make sure you know what the word fulfillment means to you. Ponder it and Meditate on it. See yourself having the relationship you want, see yourself supporting each other grow.
How to have a fulfilling relationship
1. Study and read about healthy relationships. Without the knowledge, you won’t be able to make the necessary changes. After all, how can you start having a relationship when you are not aware of what you lack?
2. Honesty
3. Compassion
4. Understanding.
5. Practice unconditional love
6. Loyalty
7. Become enthusiastic with making your relationship a success
8. Study and apply everything above
If you read this article and don’t apply what you have learned, then having a fulfilling relationship will stay a dream for you. As Thomas Smith said, “If it is to be, it is up to me.”
Love is like a plant. It needs consistent, careful attention to thrive. Without it, your relationship is destined to wither away. How to win your lover’s heart was released by 2achieveyourgoals.com to help you win and capture your lover’s heart and avoid breakups. To check 2achieveyourgoals.com books, click here
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So true. You have to be happy with yourself before you can be happy with your partner – no one has the ability to make your happy (or the time to do it) if you do not already enjoy yourself. You will always find things to be upset about with your partner if you are not happy with yourself.
For instance (I know this one personally!), if you have low self-confidence about your body then a partner is not going to increase that confidence for you! They can tell you that you look great until they are blue in the face; you are not going to believe it unless you are really happy with yourself. And you will take it out on your partner in the meantime – which means your relationship won’t be a blissful romance no matter how great they are.
I like your end quote there as well. So true.
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I agree 100% Dia.
It’s like with anything. We seek externally for things to make us happy, and we fail. It’s the same with a partner. This is because real happiness always comes from within first. This then allows for a proper relationship that is based on a mutual desire to help each other and see each other grow, rather than one that is based upon neediness.
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I love how you are bringing your direct experience into your blogs, Dia. We love getting advice from folks who have proven the advice works in their own lives, don’t we. When we open our heart to the Ultimate Understanding that we are worthy of all that is good and beautiful, fulfilling relationships come in abundance. An ounce of feeling our worthiness is more valuable than a ton of intellectualizing about it.
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Hi Dia,
You are right again. You have to have a good relationship with yourself, before you can have a good relationship with a partner. I like number 5. unconditional love. ”
When it comes to a partner you love them, but you may not like there actions and that moment. With unconditional love the actions can be worked through with communication, so you do not loss the love and respect.
Thanks again Dia and blessing to you,
Debbie
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Loyalty n trust are main things for healthy relationship…..I think no need to learn about relationship,what we have to do is just feel about them…….
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