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How to communicate with your partner?

How to communicate with your partner?

Do you know how to improve your relationship with your partner? What are the necessary steps that need to be taken to acquire effective communication skills with your partner?

You probably know that communication in relationships is needed for any happy relationship and marriage to succeed. Many couples ask themselves the same question over and over again, “Should I leave my partner?”  Many relationships and marriages end and break because of lack of communication as I discussed in my book “How to win your lover’s heart.” In my previous article, “Top reasons for lack of communication in a relationship,” I explained the main reasons why couples fail to communicate well with each other.

To improve your communication with your partner and to learn the secrets behind communication in relationships and marriage, follow the steps below:

1. Learn not to interrupt your partner when he or she is speaking.

2. Listen carefully and pay attention to what your spouse is saying.

3. Ask your spouse a question, then based on your partner’s answer, ask a new question.

4. Comment on what your partner says by using words such as how, where, when…

5. Understand and respect each other’s opinions and beliefs.

6. Instead of blaming your partner for something, use the word “I feel…” For example, instead of saying, “You did something wrong,” say, “I feel that you didn’t do a good job with…”

7. Talk to your spouse about your needs. If you don’t talk to your partner about it, then he or she might now know what you want or need.

8. Say romantic words to your partner constantly as using romantic words bring you closer to each other and will show your spouse that you care.

9. Talk to your partner about your feelings and emotions.

10. Learn to use body language to help you communicate better with your spouse. Showing good eye contact, showing compassion in your voice when you speak are all good examples to use.

Always remember what Aaron Goldman said, “Communicate unto the other person that which you would want him to communicate unto you if your positions were reversed.”

Love is like a plant. It needs consistent, careful attention to thrive. Without it, your relationship is destined to wither away. How to win your lover’s heart was released by to help you win and capture your lover’s heart and avoid breakups.  To check books, click here

For more information, read:

Stages of a relationship and marriage

Should I leave my partner?

How to make a girl fall in love with you?

How to make a relationship last and grow?

Win your lover's heart The ultimate guide to achieve your goals How to have peace of mind


  1. rob white says:

    Yes indeed, Dia. Successful relationships really are all about successful communication.
    Everyone, and I mean EVERYONE wants to feel as though they have been heard. The key to successful communication is to make sure the other person feels you “Got” it. The best way to do this is to give back what has been said… if you want to be interesting be interested.

    • Dia says:

      Hi Rob,

      Exactly Rob, everyone has to show to their spouse that they understand what they want to need. There is not relationship that can succeed, without proper communication.

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  3. Julie Hayes says:

    Thanks for the advice. I believe that communication is very important for a relationship to prosper. We can see to a couple that don’t have a good relationship is because they lack communication.
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  4. The advice you have shared is important to understand to make your relationship perfect .once you have good communication there can be no problem about your situation and you will live happily.
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